What a common question you may be asking yourself. How do I fix my marriage or relationship with my partner? We live in a world where we are conditioned to want to rush out and fix and change things at the first site of unbalance or unsteadiness. We get anxious and once we become fearful we try to squeeze or make sure something doesn’t leave or run away. We spend countless hours trying to strategize how to fix a situation that oftentimes is out of our control.
Common issues that arise with couples that spark the need to fix:
This is usually the part where one of both start the blame game, oneupmanship and tit for tat. Instead of seeking to fully try and understand where our partner is coming from we seek only to be heard and validated. When both of you are operating from this position, war, resentment, anger and fear are the overriding emotions. We get blinded by having to be right. My question is: “right about what?” We start to impose our truth onto one another as if it’s the one and only right way for the relationship to function.
If trying to fix your marriage isn’t working then it may be time to do something different.
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